S and N Conversations

Guy conversations and girl conversations are so different.

Guys tend to talk about what I'd say is the "S" part of their personality. The facts and details, like sports, finances, work, themselves, jokes, etc.
Girls tend to talk about the "N" part of their personality. Things like emotion, things that move them, relationships, people in their lives, etc.

I like sports but I've never put much importance on job, career, money like I think most dudes do. I don't say that in a proud way, because I think that's probably taken to such extremes that it's a flaw of mine. Instead, I place more importance in relationships, friends, people.

Last weekend, I listened to more of the S-inclined friends talk about finances, which is an interesting conversation to have from time-to-time, but that's not where my heart is. But they all agreed on financial advice that I wouldn't consider wise like credit cards, buying brand new cars, and taking out a second mortgage. Maybe I'm a dummy, but I don't see wisdom in any of those things. But they, honestly, are all smarter than me and they think those things are wise, so maybe I'm just even more clueless that I realize.

ok bye!